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| What Is The Family? You Need To Know Important |
Many people have a new family so they face something like a big
problem but for the natural beginning it's normal something like kids don’t
listen they make noise they don’t know what they doing !!!!
Sure it's normal because they know In this life family duty leads
them and teaches them to be a better version of themselves, and other one and it's
many these days find a doctor or a social worker specialist who deals with their
kids or a normal teacher in the school tell you he is autism or Autistic
spectrum so the family got panic without understand what it is
!!!!!
and many times kids don’t have Autism or any kind of just have psychological
or emotional problems.
I'm A social worker specialist in modifying children's social, mental, and psychological behavior
I will try to show you the basics to understand your kid's mind and how can fix
his wrong way to connect with his family.
But to enter this we must first understand something important to
be clear about what we dealing with so the first question we must understand
first is.
What is the literal meaning of the word family?
Bernrand's definition:
- 1- The family is a marriage relationship based on acceptable social ties.
- 2- The family consists of people who have ties of marriage, blood, and adoption under the prevailing custom in society.
- 3- A family is a unit of interacting people, each of whom performs the role assigned to him by society, and the satisfaction of physical and economic needs accompanies this interaction.
Definition of Bogardus and Locke:
- Bogardus, Locke, and others see that the family is an emotional bond between parents and their children, all of whom live in one house. Its primary function is to raise children to be positive actors in their communities.
Definition of Westermark:
- Westermark believes that the family is a group of individuals linked together by material and moral ties to form the smallest social unit in society.
Family As A Social Institution:
1-Family Is An Open Institute:
- As we can say family it’s an open institute at this age At the same time work inside a small zone (family members and relatives) and in the big zone (a society where this family living in it) so as we can see we say it’s open in the same time have them own rules to keep it under control with who give this control (we talk about parents here) to lead this kids to be good enough for themselves and them society in future.
2- Energy:
- The family must have their power inside their zone and outside of their zone and use their resources for making this.
3- Limits:
- as an open social institution family has rules to be led under like Input, and then it passes the Procem process, and then outputs appear for humans.
4- Organizing:
- It is a basic rule so the family can achieve its goals outside and inside the family zone organizing basic so can every person do his job in the family as it be.
5- Exchange:
- The family must have an Exchange between members of the family, not just jobs or money but can be exchanged in Social acceptance, independence, security, and equality.
6- Social Control:
- For all organizations families or others must have control power to keep everything under control inside this system, inside the family the control power is here in parents like mother and father to put the rules that will give their kids push to be great in the future.
- At the same time must be support power for these kids I mean yes lead but with the smart way they cant feel it as like ties them so they feel their personality change for the better.
7- Communications:
- here we do not mean normal talk or something we are talking about a good way to support the family members and watchwords before saying because can be enough to destroy the feelings between family members if they are wrong
8- Ability For Harmoney & Stability:
- as a daily family must be sure that life is not always good or bad so this small society (family ) must be ready for this change and have enough power to stay stable to pass the moments and be ready for after it.
9- Dividing The work and Responsibilities:
- for the basic rule and as a family must have this (Dividing the work and responsibilities) to reach equality inside the family to keep family have the connection power between the members.
Have
Fun!
In
the end, remember to enjoy your time with your children – after all, they grow
up too fast! Take advantage of every opportunity to laugh and play together,
and keep focus the make them grow in the right healthy way to stay powerful
power to bring a perfect future for themselves and their society.
